“Don’t
judge each day by the harvest you reap, but by the seeds you plant.”
-Robert
Louis Stevenson
When anything crucial is
to be undertaken, normally we in India look for an auspicious day/moment. Some
people consult their family astrologer to see if there will be any impediment
in the coming days in their lives. Some others remain frenetic regarding
movement of their stars. Is there really
any good day or bad day as we think of ? This question needs a closer look.
Good or bad depends on
our thought process and it is our attitude that counts. If you march forward by
following trial and error basis, then
there is no need to be panic when bad moment comes. In the constant flux of
events, we should have the soldier's spirit to handle the situation on hand,
rather brood on planetary positions. But modern life is fast becoming a complex web of problems and happiness remains
a dear commodity even within family life. Impatience becomes hallmark of our personality.
Nobody likes to tolerate the difference of opinion. Your spouse may ask you
some suggestion and when you don't respond according to her/his expectation,
the tirade will sweep away your own happy mood.
The problem lies in giving much more credence to your predestined
beliefs rather application of your intellectual
ability to understand the things in a larger scheme.
Before you label any day
good or bad, start your day by gazing magnificent sun-rise. Is there any change
in the quality of sun rise ? Further billions of flowers blossom on the planet
Earth. When the Creator shows no difference between a good day or bad day , why
do we ? It is in fact our inclination to have no failure that is blocking the
road to enjoyment. In difficulty, there is an opportunity to learn. In sorrow,
your cherish the moments of happiness. So it is time to look beyond the fickle mind so that the idea of good or bad
day will never crop up and wisdom always prevails to deal any situation.