In good olden days, it
was mirror that catered our self-glorification and now it is
Selfie.
There is nothing wrong to make it as an obsession. When you post your
selfie on
social media, it means you are clamoring for attention which is understandable
and is a basic human need.
My younger daughter when she was in class 9 was
a bit obsessed with selfies. She used to change her Whatsapp
profile picture now and then. More than that, she takes selfies and show
us to extol herself. Anchoring is her passion. Most of the
time, she used to stand in front of mirror and rehearses her acts.
I read an interesting article written by a women in a prominent
newspaper where she admonished her obsession with selfies. My reading reaction
immediately felt to give
my take on the issue.
When it comes to selfies, I want to make it clear that there is no abnormality
associated with selfies. In this internet age, everyone is
content-generator and this free flow of information parades the inner canvas of
a person which is otherwise conjured up, in the din of daily routine.
Blogging is a social-networking platform where you can liberally share your
views/image and candidly air your views virtually on anything. It is a
forum to ventilate your creative stuff locked up inside your mind. It is not
wrong to think so. Everybody wants to give his/her own sermon on life /
issues they come across or experiences. The quality of their
argument/thought is based on their upbringing, their environment and the
people they live with.
Seeking outside validation for our talents is nothing abnormal. In HRD
(Human Resource Development) parlance, it is called
Strokes. In
fact, it will help to fine-tune those talents. In fact your mind is able
to synthesize all your experiences to beam back a formidable lesson not only to
you for future actions, but seek applaud from like-minded
people. All this can't be viewed in bad light. Taking selfie and
putting in social media is not an alien concept. In fact, selfie is
the younger sibling of blogging.
Whenever, you get positive comments on your selfie, your
self takes
a bulge and you feel propelled. This instant-gratification is a magic
pill that must be swallowed. That's why selfie becomes a mania from
teenagers to country heads.
I feel that taking selfies and instantly sharing with friends on social
media can't be dismissed as
neurosis. All of us want to be
bloated-selves
before others. This is the depth psychology. One need not feel
guilty for taking selfies. Only the bottom point is that indulgence should
not go to fanatic levels and the very awareness put you on check. The moment
you are aware that you slipped into dangerous obsession, it would bring you
back to normalcy. To protect you from such
behaviour, take
introspection of a day's affairs before you retire to sleep. Raise your
self
to a level where other's
laurels don't
matter much and your own savouring of moments
pay the rewards.